Time For Memory

Jason Finley

1978 - 2008

Jason Poynter Finley, 29, of Chesapeake, Ohio passed away Tuesday January 22, 2008 in Cabell Huntington Hospital. He was born October 24, 1978 in Huntington, WV, son of Beth and Harold Finley Jr. of Chesapeake, Ohio. Jason was preceded in death by his maternal grandfather Charles Poynter, paternal grandmother Drema Finley, and his lifelong friend, Chris Adkins. In addition to his parents, he is survived by a sister Lauren Finley of Baltimore, MD; grandmother Charlotte Poynter of Chesapeake, Ohio; grandfather Harold Finley Sr. of South Point, Ohio; aunt Susan Delker of Baltimore, MD; and one love Jamie Parsons of Chesapeake, Ohio. Jason was a 1997 Graduate of Chesapeake High School, where he was a four-year letterman in football, and the starting catcher for years in baseball. He attended Union College and Marshall University. He was a certified Tower Technician in Telecommunications. He was an avid sports fan, a loving son, grandson, and brother. He entertained us with his witty antics and wray humor. He will be missed forever by his family and friends. Funeral service will be conducted 12:00 Noon Thursday January 24, 2008 at Hall Funeral Home by Pastor Tom Jones. Burial will follow in Rome Cemetery. Visitation will be held from 11 to 12 Thursday January 24, 2008 at Hall Funeral Home Proctorville, Ohio. Condolences may be expressed to the family at www.timeformemory.com/hall.

There are currently 87 condolences.

GLENDA PULLEY WHEELER glendawheeler57@yahoo.com Saturday October 12, 2013 at 6:05 PM
I just found this out I can not believe this. I am so sorry to hear this.

Tiffany Ausmus Wednesday May 8, 2013 at 5:02 AM
Jason was truly a wonderful man. I loved him dearly. He always knew how to make a person smile and laugh. He was a very caring kind person. I think about him all the time. I miss him but I know he is in Heaven smiling down on me say baby girl it will be alright. R.I.P. Jason! Miss & love you dearly!

David Webb hvactechnician@hotmail.com Sunday July 6, 2008 at 11:49 AM
Jason, i moved away for 7 years. the day i got moved into my new house back in chesapeake i woke to the bad news. i was talking about jason that night with my wife. Jason was a very cool guy and thats how he will be remembered by me and my family.

angel walton starangel_319@yahoo.com Thursday February 28, 2008 at 1:34 PM
my prayers are with the family i knew jason as a child and it is a sad loss

kim cooper Wednesday January 30, 2008 at 9:00 AM
i am so sorry beth and harold i had no idea until today. god bless you

Carl Wilkes crw531@verizon.net Tuesday January 29, 2008 at 10:36 AM
Beth and Harold: I can't begin to understand how you would feel by losing a child. I want you to realize that although I wasn't able to be there in person, my heart was saddened by this tragic event. I want Harold to realize that it was very brave of him to try and share his thoughts to other parents as to what may happen to their child in given circumstances. I know that Jason was very much loved by both of his parents, sister and entire family. I have known both of you since our time together through high school. Please remember that our prayers are with you and your family.

Teresa Helmondollar fymjdn@yahoo.com Monday January 28, 2008 at 9:29 PM
Beth: We have a bond from childhood, how sad that we now have another bond to share. With God's help we will get through this time. You and your family are in my prayers. Teresa

George "Ducky " and Peggy Houston Monday January 28, 2008 at 2:29 PM
Harold Jr. and Beth, Our hearts are aching for you, and there is nothing we can do to ease the heartache, but we have a great Almighty God and I am asking him to just wrap his might arms around you and Beth at this time. Love Duckie and Peggy

Corey Hamilton Monday January 28, 2008 at 8:26 AM
Beth, Jr., and Lauren, I knew Jason pretty much from birth and I have such a wide variety of memories of him. Everytime I think of him I just see that great smile. He will always hold a special place in my heart and memories. In fact, some of my favorite memories from high school include him. When I told Dad(Don)that afternoon,he was so shocked he had to call me back. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Corey Hamilton (CHS '97')

Alisha Kuempel (Staley) Alishans@yahoo.com Sunday January 27, 2008 at 8:20 PM
What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us. -Helen Keller

janet , ryan, seth jarrell Saturday January 26, 2008 at 11:19 AM
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Janet,Ryan, and Seth Jarrell

Greg & Millie Tomlinson Millmissie@aol.com Friday January 25, 2008 at 10:10 PM
Harold, Beth, and Lauren, Please know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers. We have been out of town and didn't return until Thursday evening so we did't get to come to Jason's service. Our family has many wonderful memories of Jason from school days at Chesapeake with Matthew. We cannot imagine your pain with this great loss. But we know God is able to help and keep you through this tragedy! With our love and prayers, the Tomlinson's.

Alvin, Cindy, Kyle and Jaime Douglas (Orlando, Fl) cynthee426@yahoo.com Friday January 25, 2008 at 9:09 PM
Beth, Harold and Lauren, Our hearts ache for you all in this most difficult time. There are no words to express the way we feel, but please know that you are in our daily thoughts and prayers. Love, Cindy,Alvin, Kyle and Jaime

Sarah Johnson Friday January 25, 2008 at 7:55 PM
I will always remember Jason from elementary school. Even though we went all 12 years together he will forever live in my memory as the boy I was never allowed to sit next to in elementary school because we talked and laughed constantly. He was also my playground buddy for awhile, before girls became the enemy of boys and vice versa. I am so sorry for your loss, he was a great guy who got sucked down the wrong path.

Chandra Huff chandrahuff@msn.com Friday January 25, 2008 at 7:20 PM
Harold, Beth, and Lauren- My heart broke when I heard the news about Jason. I will always remember him fondly as the boy who ate glue in 4th grade, who I cheered for all through JR high and High School, as a very smart and funny guy, and as a good friend. I am so sorry for your loss and very sorry I could not be there to give you a hug in person. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Jason. Love- Chandra Huff

Katrina Wilkes wlksktrn@aol.com Friday January 25, 2008 at 3:06 PM
Harold & Beth, I am very sorry for your loss & so sorry I could not attend the service but I was out of town. My thoughts & prayers are with you & yours during this time. Katrina Wilkes

Ike and Patty Lake and family Friday January 25, 2008 at 11:47 AM
Dear Finley Family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss and know there are no "words" of comfort at this time in your life. Our prayers are with you all and if there is anything at all that you need please do not hesitate to call. Stay strong in your faith and know that the Lord is WITH YOU at this terribly heartwrenching time in your life. It is all still such a shock and I can't find the words to quite express how much we are feeling for you and the WHOLE family. Please know we send our love and deep condolences. If you need anything Ike and I are here, just call. Love and Prayers, Patty and Ike Lake and Family

Lacey Harless (Parsley) Friday January 25, 2008 at 11:13 AM
Harold, Beth, and Lauren I am so sorry to hear about Jason. He and I grew up together. Then graduated from CHS together. He was so smart and funny. You could never stay mad at him nomatter how hard you would try because he was so funny. I can't imagine what you are feeling, but my prayers and thoughts have truly been with you since I heard. I know that we can endure and make it through anything with GOD as our strength. May GODS peace and comfort be with.

Jessica (Chatterton) Adkins Stormy79@peoplepc.com Friday January 25, 2008 at 9:52 AM
JASON WAS IN MOST OF MY CLASSES IN SCHOOL. HE WAS A FUNNY GUY. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. THERE HAS BEEN SOME NEGATIVE THINGS THAT HAVE BEEN WRITTEN ABOUT THE FAMILY ON THE HERALD DISPATCH SITE. I ALSO KNOW THAT WILL COME BACK TO THOSE PEOPLE 10 FOLD. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU! CHS 1997

Friday January 25, 2008 at 9:05 AM
Life seems hard now but remember what Jason taught us throughout his actions in life: Smile, live life happily, and lay your troubles down and start each day as a new one. Comfort comes through Christ for those who seek it. There are open hearts and hands to help so make sure to seek us. Prayers be with you, Raynell, Chadd, Drake,& Ryker Hatfield

becky tieman xxsingle_sexyxx@yahoo.com Friday January 25, 2008 at 8:50 AM
i very sorry what happend to ur son. i new ur son very well he was my first love we wnet out a couple of years ago! he will be missed

Burgess, Jerad & Family Thursday January 24, 2008 at 11:37 PM
Our Thoughts and prayers are with you..

Leighann Queen_of_wickedness_24@yahoo.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 9:49 PM
HI, I realize none of you know who i am but i am sure there are several of us that you dont know. My name is Leighann, Jason and i met in the summer of 2000, he asked me out but due to the circumstances of my situation i told him no, we became quick friends and he ended up into some trouble and went to jail and we lost touch. Jason has never left my mind or my heart, we had several long talks and i have always believed jason had a heart of gold, there was never anyone who could make me feel better as quick as he could at that time. Every time i pass hydragena (snowball) bushes i think of him, he once picked me some of those and a couple of roses from someones flowerbed, it was a time i will never forget. I am sure jason has touched many hearts along the way as he has my own. I read some of the comments on the website for WSAZ and i do not agree with some of them, some of them seem to shift blame to the family saying that jason had no one to turn to, it wasnt true. Jason knew he had so many people that loved and cared about him and would always be there for him when he needed them, i believe thats why he took the risks that he took. Jason will forever be in my heart even though we didnt stay in touch i always kept up with his whereabouts and how he was doing through jessica and Chris, it was because of them that i met Jason. Jason will sadly be missed. My thoughts are with all of you.

Steven Carter hardnockz@yahoo.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 9:21 PM
i am so sorry for your loss...your are in my thoughts and prayers

Shellie Stevens Yapp kandie_cane45680@yahoo.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 9:08 PM
I knew Jason for quite sometime he was a very loving person and will be greatly missed. My prayers go out to all the family and friends of Jason. He was such a sweetheart and very handsome man and I will always remember him joking and laughing. I hope you all do the same just remember him with that beautiful smile on his face.

Dana J Miller Thursday January 24, 2008 at 8:34 PM
Beth, Harold and Lauren, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I give you my heart felt sympathy. Life is so fragile. May God comfort you, and may you find comfort in your memories of Jason.

Hollie Miller Thursday January 24, 2008 at 8:27 PM
Harold, Beth, and Lauren: I know there are no words to make this hurt any less. I live thousands of miles away, but still heard about this tragedy as soon as I woke up that morning. That just goes to show what a strong, supportive little town we come from. I can only imagine the number of people who will be sharing their condolences with your family. Everyone knows the Finley's! I'm sorry I cannot be there, but know you are in my thoughts. May God lift you up in this difficult time and carry you through. Take care! Love, Hollie

Valerie (Clark) Soltys Thursday January 24, 2008 at 8:26 PM
Dear Harold & Beth, I am so sorry for your heart break, please know you are all in my prayers.

Joni (Johnson) Kimball SkyKball@aol.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 8:17 PM
I would like to tell you all how sorry I am for your terrible loss. I deeply hope that you will find comfort in God. I also hope all the prayers for your family will lift your hearts. Jason was an incredible person. We went to school together. Our sophmore year we rode to school together nearly every day with my niece. At the time she drove a Chevette and every time we had to get gas, he would tell Billie, "This is a high perfomance machine, thus we must use premium!" We used to laugh so hard and to this day, every time I see a clunker at the gas station, I think of him. God blessed him with that humor, just as God will bless you with the ease of your sorrows. I thank God for knowing him.

The Skeens Family Thursday January 24, 2008 at 7:09 PM
Our prayers are with your family during this difficult time. We have been thinking today of many happy time experienced at the baseball field & basketball gym @ CHS. Linden,Debby,Shawna,Elizabeth & Ryan.

Dustin O'Brien, Dan and Donna Wagner Thursday January 24, 2008 at 6:53 PM
So Sorry for your loss

Ricky Cremeans rfcsrv@hotmail.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 6:51 PM
May God be with you all and give you peace and comfort. I was devistated to hear about Jason. I haven't seen him since high school, but I remember him as a very friendly and outgoing person who got along with everyone. Again, God bless and be with you all, you are in our prayers.

Jane Graham Thursday January 24, 2008 at 4:53 PM
Beth and Harold, As I listened to the news and heard the name Finley and Chesapeake, Ohio, my ears perked up. I am so very sorry for the loss of your son. I live in Parkersburg now but my heart is always with "my kids" when a tragedy occurs. Please accept my sincerest sympathy. Jane Graham, former counselor Chesapeake High School

Trisha Keesler (Akana) Thursday January 24, 2008 at 4:06 PM
Jason and I went to school together, and I remember him as a rambunctious, funny, and good spirited guy. He always made us all laugh, and he will be missed by many. I am truly sorry for your family's loss, and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Terry Dillon Thursday January 24, 2008 at 3:53 PM
Beth and Harold, On behalf of Mom and our family, please know how sorry we are for your loss! We didn't know Jason personally, but he sounds like a wonderful young man like his parents. Our thoughts and prayers go with you at this time!

Rhonda (Adkins) Hammond Thursday January 24, 2008 at 3:42 PM
Jason will be sadly missed:( My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sharon Brown Thursday January 24, 2008 at 3:19 PM
May God bless you all during this difficult time. My heart is so heavy with grief right now. I know that the love that you all have for Jason will always keep him alive in your hearts. My prayers are with you all.

glenna wells glenna.wells@hotmail.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 2:41 PM
We love you guys, our prayers are with you all. Cannonball,Glenna, Luke,Justin,and Jacob

Carla Gillette Catsamillion218@aol.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 1:52 PM
I am very sorry for your loss. I went to school with Jason at Chesapeake, and knew him to be a kind and funny person. I can also remember when we were very little.. I was a friend of cousin Cari's and Jason took me on my first fourwheeler ride. Chesapeake has certainly lost one of our own. I will continue to pray for yout family. Jason will most definitely be missed by so many!!

Debbie Devaney-Wellman fgvikingsmom@aol.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 1:50 PM
I remember as a child going to Jasons grandparents house (Finley), Dreama would always have special treats for us. The Finleys are wonderful people and I am so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.

Dale & Penny Lilly Thursday January 24, 2008 at 1:40 PM
I was shocked to hear about Jason. I cannot imagine the pain you are experiencing. I remember when Jason was young. He was such a cute little fella and as an adult he always had a smile on his face. Penny and I wish to express our deepest and heartfelt sympathy. We can take solace knowing he is safe in God's care.

amy Thursday January 24, 2008 at 1:33 PM
iam sorrry for your loss i will keep you and your family in my prayers . jason is i heaven with jesus now

Bridgette chesapeake_2007@yahoo.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 1:25 PM
Jason was good person and a good friend to me and my brother and he will miss and my prays go out to his friends and family

Beth VanDevander Thursday January 24, 2008 at 12:59 PM
Although I no longer live in the area, bad news travels fast. I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your son and grandson. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Courtney & Taylor MacKenzie Kates cournteykates@yahoo.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 12:27 PM
Finley family, I went to school with Jason and Lauren, and hate this terribly for you. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Nicole M. Adkins-Pizzino Thursday January 24, 2008 at 11:17 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. Jason and I were in the same graduating class (1997). I remember riding the school bus with him and his sister Lauren. He was a wonderful person. God Bless.

Teresa Johnson Thursday January 24, 2008 at 11:17 AM
I am so sorry for your family's loss. I wish I could be there today, but I just wanted to express my condolences and let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Teresa D. Johnson (CHS 1997)

MIKE & PEGGY GIBSON Thursday January 24, 2008 at 11:03 AM
HAROLD,BETH & LAUREN; OUR CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO YOUR FAMILY AT THIS TIME. WE HATED TO HEAR OF YOUR TRAGEDY AND HOPE THAT YOU ALL CAN GET THRUOGH THIS TOUGH TIME. WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER JASON AND THE REALLY GOOD KID THAT HE WAS HE WAS ALWAYS AND SUCH A KIND AND GOOD KID TO ALL OF US. AGAIN OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO YOUR FAMILY. WE WILL ALWAYS KEEP THE GOOD THOUGHTS ABOUT JASON. MIKE PEGGY JON AND ERIC

Debra Gallaher Kabcenel lilmouse40@aol.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 10:45 AM
Harold and Beth, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Jenny Christian jrenee0902@yahoo.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 10:28 AM
Jason was a kind soul who took pride in keeping a smile on the faces of his friends. Knowing Jason for most of my life, I have so many memories of him. This has all been a shock and I wish I could be in town during this time. My heart goes out to your family.

Chris Perry Thursday January 24, 2008 at 10:24 AM
Harold Beth and Lauren, Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lisa Preston "Elkins" lelkins@sccoast.net Thursday January 24, 2008 at 9:38 AM
Beth,Harold,"LAUREN" I had the opportuniy to spend allot of time with Jason in my first couple of years in high school. He "ALWAYS" knew how to put a smile on your face!! His beautiful smile sticks out in my mind the most!! I know Jason's heart was HUGE and he loved his family. I just want to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Your family will be in my prayers. Don't forget to turn towards God and he will "ALWAYS" give you the strength you need, some how.......some way! He's pretty AWESOME like that!! I will NEVER EVER forget Jason's charm and smile!! God Bless your family Lisa Preston

Hillary Stallo Thursday January 24, 2008 at 9:38 AM
I wish I could convey my sorrow for your loss. Jason is sadly missed, and my family's prayers are with you. God Bless.

Estell (Ellis) Watts dadzgirl@zoominternet.net Thursday January 24, 2008 at 9:36 AM
My families thoughts and prayers are with your family thru your time of need. Jason was a very nice person and very active. Thats the way I will always remember him. I know it has to be hard to cope with, and you will always have your memories which no one can strip them away from you. May God watch over you all and keep you safe!

Dr. Del Checcolo, MD and Staff the31stmedicalclinic@yahoo.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 9:35 AM
Harold and Beth we are so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers.

FRIEND Thursday January 24, 2008 at 9:28 AM
I went to school with jason and he was a wonderful person. He will be missed. My prayers go out to all his family. RIP JASON WE LOVE YOU

Brent & Bev Jeffers bsj8878@aol.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 9:18 AM
Harold & Beth, Brent & I would like to send our condolences to you both. Our hearts go out to you for your loss. We had gotten close with Jason while he and Jamie were dating. He would still stop by and visit with us when he was close by. We will miss him and his smile greatly.

Nancy Black & Family nblack54@hotmail.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 9:07 AM
Beth, Harold, and Lauren; We are so very sorry for your loss. Rebecca and Rachel cheered for Jason and Robby played sports with him since midget league. Jason spent many hours at house playing with the neighborhood kids. I remember coming downstairs one day and Jason was playing "Indiana Jones." My kids we raising the garage door up and down to see if Jason could slide under it before it closed. He always made us laugh. I could tell you a hundred stories of funny things they did together. Thank You, for sharing him with us. We loved him and we love you guys. Beth and Harold you are wonderful parents, neighbors and friends. Our hearts are filled with prayer and sorrow for you and the grief you must endure at this time. Sincerely, Doug, Nancy, Rebecca, Rachel and Rob.

Allan&Judy Bevans Thursday January 24, 2008 at 9:04 AM
Harold and Beth, Please know our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time. Allan&Judy Bevans

Bill & Charlotte Hardwick (Jacksonville, FL) Thursday January 24, 2008 at 9:04 AM
Ourcondolences and sadness

Christie Jones Thursday January 24, 2008 at 8:46 AM
Harold, Beth, and Lauren...May God be with you during this tragic time. Having grown up with him, I am truly feeling a loss. When we were kids, Jason would always come over to my house and do the dishes for me because my Mom wouldn't let me leave until I did them. He would also come over to watch basketball games on TV with my dad and I, and he loved my mother's cooking. He was such a free spirit. God bless you all. Christie, Nate, and Hope Jones

Chris Dillon and Jesse Leffingwell frostydogg1305@yahoo.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 8:20 AM
We would just like to convey our deepest condolences to the Finley Family. Jason was a good friend and a hell of a guy.

JUDY BLAKE CLAY BLAKECLARK97@MSN.COM Thursday January 24, 2008 at 8:16 AM
BETH AND FAMILY, SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. JUST FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS, BUT CALLED DAD AND HE WILL TRY TO SEE YOU TODAY. ONCE AGAIN, SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. LOVE AND PRAYERS, JUDY BLAKE CLAY

becky daniels Thursday January 24, 2008 at 8:10 AM
Nothing I could say would truly express how sorry I am for the loss of Jason's life he was a good friend to have and he will be missed by all who knew him. You and the rest of the family are in my prayers and thoughts. May God continue to hold you up thru these trying times and strengthen you in your daily walk.

Christina Viars christinajonetta@yahoo.com Thursday January 24, 2008 at 7:49 AM
Jason is a very dear friend to me. In the past couple of months Jason and I spent quite a bit of time together talking about our high school days. We have always been close friends and my heart broke when I found out about losing him. My heart goes out to his family and friends who held him so dear to our heart. I will never forget the way he made me laugh when I thought no one else could. I will hold on to our memories for the rest of my life. Bless the Finley family as they go through this terrible ordeal. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Miss you J-bird Love Tina

Thursday January 24, 2008 at 1:46 AM
HARLD,BETH AND LAUREN.MAY GOD BE WITH YOU,MY HEART IS BREAKING FOR YOU ALL.I KNOW HOW IS SISTER FEELS. THIS IS A HARD THING TO GO THROUGH. BUT YOU ALL ARE STRONG AND THERE WILL BE TIMES WHERE YOU THINK YOU WON'T MAKE IT THROUGH THIS BUT YOU WILL. BILLIE JO SAUNDERS.

Teddi Leigh Jade Rose Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 10:43 PM
They say only the good die young...and that was the case here. Jason and I have been friends for about 11 or 12 years, but he has really showed me TRUE FRIENDSHIP since my sister passed away Dec 10th. He was a loving, compassionate, trustworthy guy that was always there for me. We became so close so quickly...we were together all the time. He was supposed to pick me up the morning he passed away. The night before, we had such a heart- to- heart for an hour. The last time I saw him, he hugged me and told me he loved me. Im so thankful for that and I will NEVER forget it. I love Jason and his family so much. Beth and Harold...Im so sorry for your loss, Jason loved and respected your guys so much and he wanted to make you proud again. No matter what, you never gave up on him and believe me, he saw that and knew he was lucky to have parents like you. Lauren...believe me baby girl I DO KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH! I lost Tara and didnt understand why I lost my only sibling and what I was going to do. But as time passes, things will get a little easier. I promise. If you need me then call me...I love you guys and hang in there...

Carol Isaacs ridgegirl2020@aol.com Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 9:06 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Jason was such a fun person to be around. I love you all and if you need anything please do not hesitate to call. I am always here for you. Carol Isaacs

Angie Rose arose@nhmccd.edu Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 9:01 PM
To the family of Jason, we never think, no matter what, our children will pass before us, their parents. In both of our families this has happened. My heart is breaking for you all. There is nothing, nothing at all that I say or do to ease your pain. But please know that I am praying for your family. Harold, I remember you coming to Tara's service on Dec 13th. Thank you for that and I hope Tara and Jason are looking down on us knowing how much we love them, miss them and we are so proud to be their parents. Many prayers to you all. Angie Rose

Michelle magnumlady357@yahoo.com Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 8:35 PM
Beth,Jr,and Lauren, There are no words to express what you feel at this moment. I can't begin to imagine. I can only say I am so sorry for your loss. Jason was very funny and loved to make people laugh. He will be missed by all who knew him well. I watched Jason grow and change thru the years and If one truely knew you as parents and friends, they could say you were the greatest. No effort was spared for either of your children and you have supported them both 100%. Lots of children are not so lucky. My heart goes out to you now in your time of sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. You can call on me for anything you may need now and in the future. Love Michelle

Julie Henderson Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 8:05 PM
Harold & Beth...I am so sorry for your loss. I don't even know if you remember me, but I cheered for Jason @ CHS. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Amy Mollett (Riley) Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 7:48 PM
Although we no longer live in the Peake, we try and keep up with those in the community. I hate to hear news such as this. Thoughts and prayers from Georgia.

Kelli Bartram (Meehling) Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 7:37 PM
My heart goes out to you.Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you.

Heath and Michelle Miller hmiller99@homail.com Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 6:15 PM
Harold, Beth, and Lauren, I just wanted to let you know that you all are in our prayers. I cannot begin to fathom what you are going through, but my heart truly feels for you. I remember our little league days with the blue Schneiders undefeated teams that we were on. I'll never forget Jason's willingness to slide head first, Pete Rose style, into any base. I apologize for not being able to bring my family in from SC to offer our condolences and respect. We will keep you all in our prayers.

Denise Dailey denisedailey@embarqmail.com Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 4:53 PM
Junebug, Beth, I ache so much for you. No one should have to go through losing a child. Just hang on to each other very tight and don't let go! I love you. Cuz

Kandi Taylor Smith smithbf@nktelco.net Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 3:54 PM
Harold & Beth, You are both CHS friends. I live away, so I often check the home newspaper online. What a shock to read about Jason! I am praying for strength for both of you.

Terry Montgomery tgm1213@yahoo.com Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 3:53 PM
Dear Beth,Lauren, Harold, and Nan, Please know that your family is in my prayers. I am so very sorry for your loss. Terry

Denise Ross-Trogdon dptrogdon@embarqmail.com Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 3:43 PM
Harold and Beth, it saddens me to hear about Jason. I still think of him as little baby and playing with him at Harold and Drema's in Chesapeake. I am thinking of your family at this time. I know it so hard to loose a child.

Johnda Carpenter (Smith) Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 3:36 PM
I just wanted to let the family know how sorry I am about what happened. Please know that I have been sincerely praying for your family often. I know Jason had been going through some rough times, but I hope you remember the good times more. Jason was a great friend in school who could make anyone laugh. I also remember how creative he was. He could make up the best stories. I have been telling my husband about so many of the hilarious things that Jason did in elementary school. Just know that we will all miss him.

Carrie Sias Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 3:08 PM
I cannot begin to express how sorry I am for your loss. Jason was like another brother to me in school. He was always fun to be around and he cared a lot for his friends. Please know that many people cared for Jason and he will be missed.

Diane Perry Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 3:04 PM
Beth, Harold and Lauren you are in my prayers. Psalm 121:1-2 says, I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help. My help cometh from the Lord, which made heaven and earth. Look to our heavenly father..you will find strength in him! Love, Diane

Linda and Elwood Beegle Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 2:57 PM
Our hearts go out to you. Love and prayers to each of you. Your Emmanuel buddies.

Renee Stollings-Martin nursegirl4058@aol.com Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 2:51 PM
So sorry to hear about Jason....May you find comfort in God during this time. You will be in my prayers.

Lisa Galloway lisamg1209@aol.com Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 2:04 PM
To the Finley family, I cannot tell you all how my heart goes out to you. I met Jason a few times recently being he has been a huge part of my niece Teddi's life since her sister Tara died this past Dec. 10th. I talked with you Harold in reguards to these kids and their actions and I know through those conversations where your heart was with Jason. I see you have tried so much with him and wanted only the best for your son. I know what our family is going through without Tara in our everyday lives, so I have an indication what you are experiencing as well. God will give you the strength and courage to deal with this. Always, always keep Jason and those good memories close to your hearts. The issues he had in his life did not make him a bad person...nor does it stop him from being your son. I spoke to Jason a few weeks ago about both of his parents...he told me how much he loved you both but he wasn't ready for change at this point. I felt his emotions through his pain. I pray for help for Teddi to change her life after all the deaths and lives lost recently. I know she thought the world of him as well. Please know we keep you all in our prayers...

MYRA HOFFMAN MYWISH35@AUSTIN.RR.COM Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 1:59 PM
MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO EACH OF YOU DURING THIS TIME. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS OF COMFORT ARE WITH YOU ALWAYS. LOVE, MYRA DAWN

Kathy Ransbottom Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 1:11 PM
Harold and Beth, we are so sorry for your loss. You both are incredible people, and together you will get through this. Christopher says to tell Harold that he is sad for you. We love you guys! Kathy Ransbottom & Christopher

michael france/ judy buckland Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 12:59 PM
beth& harold my heart goes out to you for the loss of jason as michael and jason played ball to geather i know what it is to lose a child our thoughts are with you

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