Time For Memory

Lara Danielle Carder

1979 - 2006

Lara Danielle Turley Carder, 27 of Milton, passed away October 4, 2006 at Cabell-Huntington Hospital. She was born June 21, 1979 in Huntington, a daughter of Mark and Carolyn Castleberry Turley of Milton. She was preceded in death by her husband, Jason Carder and her paternal grandfather, Azel Turley. Also surviving are her son, Samuel Elisha Carder; one sister, Carissa Turley; two brothers, Daryl Turley and his wife, Tricia, and Joel Turley, all of Milton; paternal grandmother, Maxine Turley of Milton; maternal grandparents, James and Dorothy Castleberry of Athalia, Ohio;mother-in-law, Abby Carder Garnes and her husband, Larry Garnes; brother-in-law, Nathan Carder and his fiancé, Jessica Lindsay, Lara’s best friend and several uncles, aunts and cousins. A celebration of her life will be held at the River Cities Community Church at 2:00 pm Saturday, October 7, 2006 by Pastor Larry Greene of River Cites Community Church and Pastor Allen Stewart of Milton Baptist Church, with visitation from 11:00 am to 2:00 pm Saturday at the church. Lara was a very loving, generous, compassionate Christian daughter, wife, mother and sister and member of the Milton Community. She graduated from Judson College in 2001. She witnessed to all of her belief in and relationship with Jesus Christ. She grew up as an active member of Milton Baptist Church and continued as an active member of River Cities Community Church. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Samuel Elisha Carder College Fund, c/o Russ McCray, Box 35, Milton, WV 25541. Wallace Funeral Home, Barboursville, is in charge of arrangements. Condolences may be expressed to the family at www.timeformemory.com/wallace.

There are currently 97 condolences.

Bianca (Byers) Mayoros Thursday November 4, 2010 at 3:35 PM
I went to Judson with Lara. We were in choir together and went on choir tours together. Lara has the most beautiful voice! I had heard of her passing right after it happened and was heartbroken. My 18 year old little sister, Tamara, was shot and killed by her fiance in February of this year. The pain of losing Tamara in that way is, well, words can't even describe. I've been thinking about Lara and her family and friends. Just wanted to write and let you know that I am still praying and I can now pray at a greater depth. Miss you Lara!

Beth Bernard Friday September 18, 2009 at 10:21 AM
You have been on my mind a lot recently. Your death renewed my passion for the work I do in domestic violence and that has not ceased. I still pray for Sam and the rest of your family. Miss you.

donnie Thursday March 6, 2008 at 7:36 PM
i'm sorry for your loss. i now how mrs.nwlon feels she is so sad exspeacally when she told us what happened again i'm sorry

Reona Bailey-McGee glamourpurse13@yahoo.com Thursday February 7, 2008 at 9:25 PM
Over a year has passed, and you are still thought of daily. My grandpa is now with you, show him the ropes. He's a sturdy friend to have...Love you both.

Emily Mink mink.emily@yahoo.com Saturday November 24, 2007 at 10:55 PM
SHE ROCKED MY 7th GRADE WORLD...4 years ago.

Reona Che' Bailey-McGee glamourpurse13@yahoo.com Friday March 23, 2007 at 2:31 PM
Almost six months have went by since that horrible day, and we're still on a role with the reunion plans, and still missing you. It's a little less organized without you there, but we are managing. You are thought of daily, and we hope you're proud of our planning process. Till next time, prayers to your loved ones.

Reona Che' Bailey-McGee beechbunny13@yahoo.com Saturday November 11, 2006 at 11:20 PM
Still in my heart...What would you do in this situation???? We're getting ready for the holidays at our house...Hope you like the extra Fu-Fu I put up!! Maybe jsut ONE more string of lights...Reona

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Amanda (Mahlstedt) Zeidler Friday October 20, 2006 at 7:02 PM
I would like to offer all of my thoughts and prayers to all of you at this time. I went to college with Lara and lived in the room across the hall from her our freshman year. I can't imagine what all of you are going through, but please know that she will live on in everyone she knew...and in Sam. She was one of the most devoted Christians I knew and I loved her warm heart and free spirit! She taught me a lot about life in the short time I knew her. Thank you for sharing her with us and may God offer you peace beyond understanding in this difficult time. With my deepest sympathy, Amanda (Mahlstedt) Zeidler

Julio Pinzon jcpinzon72@hotmail.com Friday October 20, 2006 at 1:39 PM
I sorry for your loss and I pray the Lord for strength, I'm so sad to hear this, I met Lara a few times while attending Judson, I remember how sweet she was. It is an inmense loss! May the Lord hold you in his arms!!! Sincerely Julio

Lisa Thompson lisa-marie2@juno.com Friday October 20, 2006 at 3:58 AM
I am so sorry to hear of Lara's death. I had the privilege of serving with her on Spiritual Life for my last semester at Judson. She always brought so much joy and the love of Jesus to our team and the campus. Although I knew her for only a short time, I have never forgotten her. I pray that God carries your family through this tough time and you can come out of this even stronger in your relationships with Him. God Bless, Lisa Thompson

Sarah (Alexander) Lutenske eslutenske@chartermi.net Thursday October 19, 2006 at 5:17 PM
I went to Judson College with Lara and though I didn't know her well, I do remember her as a very cheerful and wonderul person who loved life. My heart is broken for her and her family during this tragic time. May God bless you all and please accept my deepest sympathy during this time. Sincerely, Sarah Lutenske

Sara (Synstelien) Lott Thursday October 19, 2006 at 4:49 PM
I was shocked and saddened today to hear of Lara's death. I met Lara at Judson in 1997, she roomed right across the hall from me our freshman year and we remained friends through college. Lara radiated God's love in all she did and used her gifts to bring Him glory. Now she is singing praise in His very presence, though the world is saddened by the loss of her smile and laughter. My prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Jan Long janlong@charter.net Thursday October 19, 2006 at 12:21 PM
I have only known Lara for a couple of years through her work with the WV Division of Personnel, but she touched me deeply. She was a joy to work with, and her faith was reflected in her dealings with everyone she met. She will be deeply missed by all of us who had the great good fortune to work with her. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Michelle Brown Wednesday October 18, 2006 at 4:48 PM
I saw Lara at Homecoming at Judson(92 grad), and wanted you to know that I am praying for your family and for little Samuel, and will continue to pray for him. Although I did not know Lara personally, I know I met her aquaintance at Homecoming, and she was a sister in Christ. In deepest sympathy- Michelle Brown : Judson class of 92

Stephanie Singer (Colle) Wednesday October 18, 2006 at 11:34 AM
Sorry to hear about Lara. Although it's been a long time since I have seen her, I will always remember her smile and her genuine character. I went to school with Lara at Judson College. She lived a few doors down from me at Volkman Hall. I am praying for your family and her son that you feel the peace of God and that he may sustain you all. May God bless you and again deepest sympathy for the loss of Lara. Stephanie Singer (Colle)

Janet Koon Monday October 16, 2006 at 11:00 AM
Carolyn and family, my heart aches for all of you. Lifting up prayers for you. She was an inspiration to everyone. Her life was a walk with God. We believe that our children should not go before we do but God has His own agenda. Know that you are loved, Janet

Heather (Drabek) Hoyt Thursday October 12, 2006 at 8:37 AM
I am sorry to hear about Lara's untimely death.

Vicki (Brucci) Kingsbury myjetta76@hotmail.com Wednesday October 11, 2006 at 11:05 AM
I was very saddened by the news of Lara's passing. I met her at Judson College, and had the pleasure of singing with her in the choir. I will always remember her as a pleasant and positive person. I'm convinced that God called her home to be with him, because she loved Him so much. My condolences and prayers go out to all of her friends and family.

Reona Che' Bailey-McGee glamourpurse13@yahoo.com Tuesday October 10, 2006 at 9:40 PM
Our hearts go out to all those lucky enough to know Lara...Meaning those who know what a loss this truely is. Lara shed a light of optimisim that isn't found on a daily basis...I will continue to talk to Lara, and think about what she would do in a situation I may face. I know I can't go wrong. Everyone touched by this is in our prayers. Always.

Shannon(Drabek) & LB Whaples Shannonspianostudio@hotmail.com Tuesday October 10, 2006 at 12:09 PM
I'm so sorry to hear of your lose. Lara helped me get through a few of my classes by teaching me just enough to sing the solfege that was needed. She was a joy to be around and I thoroughly enjoyed being in many of the same classes. We will be praying for the entire family.

Shelly, John and Audrey Street zarya357@yahoo.com Tuesday October 10, 2006 at 11:17 AM
Lara Carder was one of the most beautiful, wonderful human beings I've ever had the privilege to meet. Her warm smile is something I miss dearly. Our children were playmates at daycare from day one. When Sam moved up to the next room I truly missed our conversations. She never knew a stranger and I hope Sam will know one day what a GREAT mother she was to him. If a happy child is a true indication of one's success as a parent, Sam, like his mother, was a ray of smiling sunshine everyday. In a busy world she set every free moment aside for her son and THAT is how I will always remember her. We grieve with you and keep the entire family in our thoughts. Shalom, The Street family

Kate (Rische) Maxfield Tuesday October 10, 2006 at 10:57 AM
I was blessed to know Lara during our time together at Judson College and I know that she was a blessing to all who knew her. My heart aches for you, her family, for dear Samuel. May the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you and may His peace strengthen you when nothing else can. Jesus said, "I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." John 16:33

Jessica (Daniels) Slate jessislate@yahoo.com Monday October 9, 2006 at 10:17 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. I was in Girl Scouts with Lara and was in choir with her in high school for a little while.She was always such a sweet and loving girl. May God give you the strength and the serenity to make it thru this terrible time.

Cullen Daniel Duneschilde77@yahoo.com Monday October 9, 2006 at 7:18 PM
I also Met Lara at Judson in 1997.We were in Chior together and I have many wonderful memories of choir tours, concerts and fun times in the dining hall after choir practice. She was an amazing person, and a good and caring friend. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.

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Jillian (Price) Neyhart jillianprice@hotmail.com Monday October 9, 2006 at 5:58 PM
I met Lara at Judson College in 1997. We were in the choir together and always had so much fun. I remember rooming with her during choir tours all over the United States and in Europe. She made all of our trips so much fun. She was such a beautiful person on the inside and out. My heart goes out to the entire Turley family and especially to Lara's son Sam.

Misti Johnson (Boggess) Monday October 9, 2006 at 5:11 PM
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I remember being in girlscouts and coming over to your house and the fun that all us girls had. Lara alwasys seemed to know the right thing to say and was always there to give hug when it was needed. Your fammily is in my prayers. May god bless you and keep you strong. Love Misti Johnson Boggess

Beth Bernard Bethers79@hotmail.com Monday October 9, 2006 at 11:31 AM
My heart broke when I heard of Lara's death! I met her at Judson College, and she as a delightful, amazing, funny, loving and caring young woman. I have no doubt that increased in the last 5 years since we graduated. Her spirit,laugh and smile filled a room. I am so thankful she doesn't have to imagine what it is like to sing praises with the Lord, she is there right now doing just that. May God hold the Turley family close to Him during this time! I am praying for all of you, her friends and Sam.

Jenna Rae Monday October 9, 2006 at 11:28 AM
My sweet family, I wanted to tell you that today is my 22nd birthday, and as my gift to Lara, Sam, and you, in lieu of my recieving presents, I asked that contributions to Sam's fund be made. It was one of the smallest things I could possibly do for you. It was my best birthday ever. I love you all. (And having Joanna at my birthday dinner was SUCH a blessing!)

Elizabeth Rhoads Monday October 9, 2006 at 9:28 AM
I was a student of Mrs. Carder when I attended Covenant. She touched my life and the lives of each of her students. I will never forget her kindness. I will keep your family in my prayers. In Christ, Elizabeth Rhoads

nate Monday October 9, 2006 at 3:49 AM
LARA, I'VE ALWAYS had A PLACE IN MY MIND FOR YOU... & i ALWAYS WILL! I'll SEE u, N8 P.S. in my heart too- U KNOW

Natalie Spears Monday October 9, 2006 at 12:21 AM
Carolyn, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers I am deeply saddened for your loss. Love and prayers-Natalie

Sarah Crum Sunday October 8, 2006 at 9:40 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. I went to school with Lara at Cabell Midland. She was such a breath of fresh air to all that knew her. May the Lord comfort you in your time of sorrow.

Kim Clay Grams Saturday October 7, 2006 at 9:46 PM
Laura was a very special flower in Gods garden. in her final hours she was not alone . God has wrapped his arms around her and is holding her in his arms as we will all always hold her in our hearts. may the Lord bless and keep each of you. for he is the strength. with deepest sympothy

Gwen Stoll Saturday October 7, 2006 at 7:59 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. I went to church with Lara at River Cities. I will always remember Lara's bright and friendly smile, her sweet personality, and beautiful singing voice. She will be greatly missed. May God comfort you in your time of sorrow. In Christ, Gwen Stoll

Marilynn Johnson Saturday October 7, 2006 at 3:50 PM
My dear friends, I grieve with you. I ask God for His strength and comfort for you at this time. I cannot imagine how you must feel, but know it must be very hard. I am so glad little Sam is okay. Focus on that little guy. That should help, too. With love and prayers from all of us, Marilynn and all the D. Lee Johnsons

Brent and Lee Anne Beckett, Bethany, Kaitlyn and Sean leeannebeckett00@yahoo.com Saturday October 7, 2006 at 2:54 PM
Mark, Carolyn, Daryl, Tricia, Joel, Carissa, and Sam, We are lifting your family up in prayer always. Allow God's arms to envelope you in love and peace.Daryl, you sang like an angel last week and we will always keep a very special place in our hearts for you and Tricia. We love you all and will continue to pray. Love, The Becketts

Jennifer Bowling Saturday October 7, 2006 at 1:51 PM
Our hearts ache at the thought of your great loss. Lara was so special with the most beautiful voice. She always had the most peaceful and pleasant look on her pretty face. We will all miss her so very much but have great memories of her, too. Please know that our family is praying for all of you and know that God will wrap his arms around you. Love, Jennifer, Greg, Luke & Erin Bowling

Leslie (Hudson-Renick) Webb lilbuckeye26@zoominernet.net Saturday October 7, 2006 at 12:53 PM
My heart goes out to the family and friends of Lara. My mother remarried and moved to Milton when I was 9 and the first faces I met were the Turley's. Lara was such a wonderful christian person. She took care of all her younger siblings and helped anyone in need.Lara helped me countless hours adjusting to a divorced family life and made my time(joint custidy) in Milton just like home. I had lost touch with Lara in college, but my time with her here on earth left a lasting impression and her beautiful voice still sings in my head. She inspired me in so many ways and was a beautiful witness for god. My heart aches for the Turley loss, but I know she is with god and it is a glorious day for her, no more darkness, pain, or suffering. I long to see her smiling face again. My Love and prayers are with each of you during this tragic time.

Blair & Ann Huddart Saturday October 7, 2006 at 11:41 AM
Our deepest sympathy. Our hearts and prayers are with each of you.

Caroline Perkins Saturday October 7, 2006 at 9:19 AM
I am so very sorry that you have lost a daughter and sister. My deepest sympathies to your family.

Don Clark Saturday October 7, 2006 at 8:54 AM
Mark, I was privileged to know your father in business and have you and your brothers as classmates at Ona, Jr. Knowing how your family sincerely and honorable conducts itself in all areas of life it came as no surprise that my son Paul held Lara in such high esteem through high school and afterwards as they enjoyed singing and living their Christian testimonies. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all those who will keep Lara's spirit a part of their lives.

Cheryl Adams Saturday October 7, 2006 at 8:28 AM
Please know that your family is being kept in my thoughts and prayers. I enjoyed seeing Carissa over Labor Day weekend while I was visiting my siblings in Martinsburg. Take care, Cheryl, Katie & Dalton Adams

Alisa Spiker & Family spike1531@verizon.net Saturday October 7, 2006 at 8:02 AM
Lara was a loving and caring mother. Our children go to daycare together. She was always very friendly and had a smile on her face, especially when she was holding Sam. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Paul Clark paulbrandonclark@yahoo.com Saturday October 7, 2006 at 3:27 AM
My heart goes out to the family of one of my best friends. Lara set an example that was wise to follow and was always ready and willing to give her testimony and witness for Christ, right up until the last conversation I had with her two weeks ago. She was someone with whom I shared many wonderful memories with and I am so thankful to have had in my life. Lara, I love you and will miss you so much; until we meet again. Love & continued prayers ...

Geneva McSweeney Saturday October 7, 2006 at 2:43 AM
I have been praying for your family. It is difficult for me to say good bye without having been able to see Lara one last time. But I was fortunate to have her in my life as a friend, and, I will one day see her again. Her smile remains in my mind.........

Bridget (Hickey) Chojnacki Friday October 6, 2006 at 11:44 PM
Lara is the kind of person that once you meet her and experience her kind smile, you can never forget her. I lived next door to her at Judson, and my husband Jacob and I are deeply grieved and sorry at your loss. She truly illuminated the light of Christ with her life and her beautiful voice. May God give you strength, grace, and comfort during this difficult time. You are in our prayers.

Dottie Adkins roadrunner778@aol.com Friday October 6, 2006 at 9:34 PM
I am so saddened for you loss of two special people close to your heart,so Got had to take the best and the beautifules't flower he can for his angles to help carry his little children home,and I know the feeling I had to go one step at a time after my daughter,Beth was killed in an accident in 1999,and still if haunts me ever day I just keep holding on to God and reading his word for soon we will all get to join them in a better place,he said to be absent from the body,is to be present with the Lord,and he really showed my family that is true,he took all the tears away at her viewing ,and let me go hold her one last time,and we never got to say by ,but I dont thak I could have did that,God knows best for those he loves and he took her for a reason we wont understand till we reach Heaven and the to will greet us as we enter,so keep you in my prairs and may God send some confort to you by my little note for we all kneed each other in bad times and good. prairs and have the faith to move to the next mountain,as we sing the song hard to climb the mountain,but it will be fine when we get there. love and prairs. Dottie,778-3552

Mark Shaver cincymark@gmail.com Friday October 6, 2006 at 9:31 PM
My utmost thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of loss and sadness. I met Lara in 1997 when we both started going to Judson. We got to be fairly good friends over the years as we had a good amount of classes together. Her love for the Lord, and others, will always be remembered. She brought such joy and happiness to everyone. May the Lord be with you and all of Lara's family and friends during this time. Peace, in Christ.

Dottie Adkins Friday October 6, 2006 at 9:17 PM
I am so sorry your daughter left here so early in life,it was a sad good by here,but she is in the presents of god now with myu daughter Beth who left a sudden void in my life it will be so hard and time is never the answer but to stay faithful with GODand pray each day and read God's word that is what got me through the rough days and still they are very hard and it was sudden accident she had at christmas in 1999 and the days are long and the nights are full of dreams,so read about how God took the living spirit she carried to paridace with him,in the bible he said to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord so look up teard joy and paridace and those words in the Bible helped me more to cope with her not here,yet is is so hard to not hold her she was 22 and like your child full of life and gifts,God dryed up our teard at the funeral home the night of the viewing for a while all at once and I felt her spirit leave,and now God sends her in her perfume .so I hope this little note helps in some was.will pray for you and her child may God take some pain away. love and prairs. Dottie adkins

Latrenda Sanders & Family Friday October 6, 2006 at 9:00 PM
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Miriah Pfile (Wilger) cmpfile@verizon.net Friday October 6, 2006 at 5:33 PM
My husband and I both graduated from Judson College (I the spring of 99 and my husband the winter of 98). We were both in choir at the same time as Lara. She was always friendly and caring. We are so sorry to learn that she has passed away. Our thoughts and prayers will be with your family.

Adrian and Elizabeth Carrion Friday October 6, 2006 at 5:05 PM
Beth and I are deeply sorrowed by the loss of Lara. Our prayers go out to Sam and the rest of Lara's family. Lara was a dear friend to both of us during our days at Judson and we cherish the many memories we have together. Lara's smile, laughter, and compassionate heart will never be forgotten. Lara, you will be missed! Love, Adrian and Beth

Connie and Danny Cantrell Friday October 6, 2006 at 3:42 PM
Lara, You lived the faith you so deeply believed, and the world is a better place because you were here. Thank you for being there to sing for our grandson's service in May. You will be forever in our hearts.

Keith Jenkins KjenkinsJC@judsoncollege.edu Friday October 6, 2006 at 3:30 PM
May God be a comfort in this storm. I came to Judson just before Lara graduated. I did not have a chance to know her personally but I'm confident she was a joy and blessing. I can't possible understand the depth of your loss but I and many others at Judson will hold your family up in prayer. Keith Jenkins

Kendra (Lindstrom) Martin Friday October 6, 2006 at 3:28 PM
I am truly sorry for the loss of your incredible daughter. I met Lara at Judson in 1997 and our friendship grew from there. She was a wonderful friend and had such a beautiful spirit and personality. Her smile truly lit up any room she was in. My heart breaks for Sam and all of her family. May God give you peace, comfort and wrap you in his loving arms during this time. God bless you all! Love, Kendra, Steve, Nate and Elliana Martin

Elizabeth Choate casbahproductions@yahoo.com Friday October 6, 2006 at 2:21 PM
Lara was the first person I meet when I went to Judson in 1998. I got out of my car and there was Lara, singing on her way to wherever she was going, and waving a hello in my direction. I had the privilege to be her roommate during her senior year at Judson and she was a delight. I would wake up to her singing (every day) and always had something positive to say about absolutely everyone and everything. She was optimistic and cheerful constantly!!! She was a true friend and rarely held grudges. She was thoughtful, considerate, sweet and humorous. I will cherish the memories I have of her forever. I am deeply grieved at your immense loss and my prayers are with you.

Jenell Wilson darrenjenell@sbcglobal.net Friday October 6, 2006 at 2:20 PM
I went to Judson College with Lara and didn't know her too well. But when I think of her I remember her kindness, she was such a gentle person. I picture her smiling and laughing and simply happy. She was a beautiful amazing person and I enjoyed her friendship for the brief time I knew her.

Darah (Vater) Herron zilithia@yahoo.com Friday October 6, 2006 at 1:31 PM
Lara, you are sorely missed. I can't believe that this has happened... your lovely spirit and bright smile will be remembered. My prayers are with Lara's parents, siblings and, of course, her beautiful son. If there is anything I can do for any of you, please let me know.

JAN AND GARY KERNS Friday October 6, 2006 at 1:25 PM
Mark and Carolyn, Our hearts break for you over your loss. Please know that if Carissa needs anything just let us know. You have been and will continue to be in our hearts and prayers... Love, Jan and Gary Kerns (Roomate Amanda's Parents)

Dr. David L. Cook dcook@judsoncollege.edu Friday October 6, 2006 at 1:24 PM
Please accept my sincere condolences and prayers for your family during this difficult time. May God grant you His peace and comfort as you pass through this difficult time.

BETTY GILLISPIE-HANNA Friday October 6, 2006 at 1:04 PM
MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY. YOUR FAMILY IS IN OUR THOUGHTS & PRAYERS.

Peggy Wysong Friday October 6, 2006 at 12:48 PM
Mark and Carolyn and family, I am so sorry to hear of Lara's passing. She went to school in Milton with both of my kids, Jason and Lindsay Wysong. Your family is in my prayers.

Bonnie Bienert bbienert@judsoncollege.edu Friday October 6, 2006 at 12:37 PM
Lara was a precious member of the Judson College family and we grieve with the Turley family in this time of sadness and loss. Lara's beautiful smile brightened the campus and her angelic voice was a beacon for the Lord when she performed with the Judson choir. We are so thankful that many friends were able to spend one more weekend with her on campus during this past Homecoming weekend. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during these difficult days.

Michelle Hale-Cardwell Friday October 6, 2006 at 12:27 PM
My prays are you you and yours... I went to school with Lara and she was a wonderful person... she will be miss greatly

Billy Dean bdean@judsoncollege.edu Friday October 6, 2006 at 12:22 PM
To the Turley family, I first met Lara when I visited Milton with Artie Powers and had the opportunity to get to know her when she came to Judson. You are in my thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.

Linda Poppert lpoppert@judsoncollege.edu Friday October 6, 2006 at 12:06 PM
I remember Lara as a student here as I am the Foodservice Director. I am praying for your family during this very difficult time. May God just envelope you with His grace and comfort.

MELIESSA WEEKLEY AND FAMILY MWEEKLEY@ALLSTATE.COM Friday October 6, 2006 at 11:34 AM
I WANT TO OFFER MY PRAYERS TO YOUR FAMILY FOR YOUR LOSS. SAMUEL, EVERYONE THAT KNEW YOUR MOMMY KNEW JUST HOW IN LOVE SHE WAS WITH YOU JUST BY THE WAY SHE LOOKED AT YOU. I WILL NEVER FORGET THE KINDNESS AND LOVE THAT LARA APPROACHED LIFE WITH. SHE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED.

Art & Sharon Powers Friday October 6, 2006 at 11:34 AM
Ours hearts are so heavy for the family. We hold found memories of Lara in our home during youth gatherings after church. She was always a joy to be with and we loved her way of sharing Jesus in her God given talents. We will greatly miss her. Please know that the family is in our prayers. Love and Prayers, Art & Sharon

Angelea (Beckett) Sloan Friday October 6, 2006 at 11:03 AM
My heart goes out to your family. My prayers are with you Mark,Carol,Daryl,Joel and Carissa. God Blss.

Lindsay Wysong luckiducki@insight.rr.com Friday October 6, 2006 at 10:51 AM
My brother and I grew up in Milton with Lara and Daryl and went to all of the same schools together. I have always thought of the Turleys as very good, wholesome people who treat others with immense respect and caring. Although my older brother knew Lara better than I, it was easy to see the kind of good, kind person she was. She brought joy to any room she entered with her smile and radiance. I am shocked and deeply saddened by her untimely passing. My deepest condolences are extended to you all during this trying time. May the Lord comfort you while you grieve.

Joselyn Meadows josmead@aol.com Friday October 6, 2006 at 10:34 AM
Lara Carder was my history teacher in 9th grade. Unlike most of my teachers, she actually made learning fun, and we actually became good friends of a sort by the end of the year. She will not only be missed by her family and friends, but also those who knew her as a teacher.

Nancy Deacon Eradat Neradat@yahoo.com Friday October 6, 2006 at 10:29 AM
Hello Carolyn, We went to high school together way back in the 60's. I want to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. God is with you; there is nothing more comforting that knowing this.

Adam & Ashley Anderson Daniels radaniels12@yahoo.com Friday October 6, 2006 at 10:29 AM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope that you know how Lara touched many lives, including myself. We knew each other in high school, but became better acquainted after college. I feel truly blessed to have known her. Ashley A. Daniels

The Creasys Friday October 6, 2006 at 10:14 AM
Daryl, we are praying for you and your entire family in these days and the time to come. Our hearts are heavy for you. We are trusting in Jesus to comfort and sustain you. Greg, Leigh Ann, Blake, Luke and Max

Aaron and Vana Chupp Friday October 6, 2006 at 10:09 AM
We send our condolences to the Turley family on ther loss of their daugher Lara. My husband Aaron met Lara in 1997 at his freshmen year at Judson college and has always talked of what a sweet person she was. I just met Lara last weekend at the Judson's Homecoming 2006 and am so glad i did. What a wonderful person Lara was, and how she talked about Sam, just melts my heart when i think about it. May her soul rest in peace and may God bless everyone whose life she touched. We'll miss you Lara!

LaAnna (Pemberton) Blake alrgnurse@yahoo.com Friday October 6, 2006 at 10:06 AM
I have memories of Lara from each summer at Cowen and our church youth group events. She was always smiling! A wonderful testimony to the happiness and peacefullness Jesus gives us! I am praying for you all. Not only for peace now, but for guidance, wisdom, and sustaining love to show little Sam the love of God throughout his life! Love and prayers, LaAnna, Kevin, Tristyn & Gavin Blake

Harmony Angello angellojhd@yahoo.com Friday October 6, 2006 at 9:54 AM
To the Turley family, Although I didn't keep intouch with your daughter. I was truly blessed to sing with her in the Judson College choir in my brief experience with Judson. I remeber her to always smile and always a loving spirit. She will be truly missed and I will continue to pray for her son and your family. May God Bless you all in this tough time. Harmony (Lugo) Angello

TARA DYER-HENDERSON Friday October 6, 2006 at 9:21 AM
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND GIVE YOU PEACE DURING THIS TIME.

Mary MEadows Friday October 6, 2006 at 9:21 AM
Lara taught my daughter Joselyn at Covenant School. Her kindness to Jos meant the world to us, and as I came to know Lara, I found her to be a considerate, CHristian woman who truly cared about my daughter. My heart breaks for your whole family and I have been praying for you. May God give you peace in the days ahead and comfort you when you remember her beautiful smile. SHe truly was an amazing person, and I'm glad she was a part of our lives. Mary Meadows

David and Lisa Rickman Friday October 6, 2006 at 8:50 AM
Mark, Carol, Joel, Darryl and Carissa we are so sorry for your loss. We want you to know we love you all and your in our prayers. If there is anything we can do please let us know. Carissa when you come back to school get in touch. You know we are here if you need us for anything. Love and prayers

Nancy Hanna Friday October 6, 2006 at 8:46 AM
Carissa, I am extremely sorry about the loss of your sister. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you need anything even just someone to talk to I am here for you. Love and Prayers Nancy

Kelley Goes Friday October 6, 2006 at 8:46 AM
I knew Lara as a loving mother - our children are in the same room at daycare - and as a wonderful, caring person who always had a smile and nice word to say to everyone. She lit up every time she was with Sam, and I want that little boy to know how much he was loved by that special person. I also want the family to know that Lara made a positive influence on people who knew her - even casually - with her sunny personality and positive attitude. My thougthts and prayers are with you all.

Elisabeth Boyd ElisabethWV@verizon.net Friday October 6, 2006 at 8:42 AM
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Lara! She was such a sweet and loving person who always had a beautiful smile to say hello. I know she is up in heaven singing with the angels and waiting until the day we all will join her. I pray that God will wrap his arms around your family in this difficult time and give you peace, comfort and joy. Love and prayers, Elisabeth Boyd

Brian and Carol Porter Friday October 6, 2006 at 7:46 AM
Daryl and family, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. May the Lord hold you up at this difficult time. Brian, Carol, Meagan and Cameron.

Heather (Spencer) Hill Friday October 6, 2006 at 6:32 AM
I have been friends with Lara for 20years. She was the most loving,considerate,fun loving,christian person. This world is now a little less now that she is not here but heaven is a lttle more. I pray for the family and friends during the most difficult time and especially for sam who will never know how wonderful his mother was and how much she loved him.

Becky, Lauren & Katie Blankenship Thursday October 5, 2006 at 10:20 PM
We are so sorry for your loss. Lara was a very, very beautiful woman - inside and out. We will always remember her sweet smile and how welcome she made us, and everyone, feel at Milton Baptist. Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Strattons Thursday October 5, 2006 at 10:07 PM
Words cannot express our sorrow.Your family is in all our thoughts and prayers.

Monica (Taylor) Stalnaker Thursday October 5, 2006 at 9:04 PM
I just wanted to offer my deepest sympathy to the family. I knew Lara when we played liitle league softball together and I never forgot anyone who was so kind as she was even when she was younger. I had a similar tragdey in my family 3 years ago and I know that words can not express the hurt, but you all are in my prayers and my family also send their condolences and prayers that the young one, Sam will learn to be as good of person as his mother was. Again I am so sorry for your loss.

Stacie Thacker- Sizemore sizemore_44@yahoo.com Thursday October 5, 2006 at 7:45 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Lara was a wonderful person and always made me feel welcome in your family. She was always so joyful about life. I pray that the Lord will give you all comfort in your time of sadness. I will be keeping you all in my prayers. Much love and deepest sympathy, Stacie Thacker-Sizemore

Nate Brooks nbrooks@adams.net Thursday October 5, 2006 at 6:24 PM
I wish to send my condolences to the entire Turley family. I met Lara at Judson College in 1997, and have considered her a dear friend ever since. She was a truly inspiring person, who never failed to see the good in every person and in every situation. I feel blessed that I got to see her last weekend at the Judson College reunion. I mourn her untimely passing but rejoice at the great faith that she posessed and am thankful for the many wonderful memories I have of Lara. May her beautiful soul rest in peace.

Jaclyn K. Whitley Thursday October 5, 2006 at 5:55 PM
My deepest sympathy to her wonderful family and friends. "Those we love remain with us... In the whisper of the wind In a soft rain that falls from heaven In each sunrise In every single star that lights the night sky and In every single memory we hold within our hearts." As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you... ISAIAH 66:13 NIV

David and Mary Johnson mnewlon76@yahoo.com Thursday October 5, 2006 at 5:49 PM
David and I and our families wish to express our deepest condolences with the passing of Lara, but at the same time, we wish to celebrate her homecoming into the arms of Jesus. It is so hard for us to let go of those we love, and sometimes it is hard to understand why a death so tragic happens. But we can take comfort in knowing that Lara and her commitment to Christ touched so many lives, and will continue to touch lives all around us. I met Lara briefly at Martha's yardsale at Maxine's house, and I found Lara to be such a sweet and caring person. Plus she was a Mary Kay sister - what a beauty she was, both inside and outside! To her mother and father - what a wonderful job you did in raising such a fine daughter, who was also a caring mother and wife. And to Maxine - I know that you cherished Lara, as you do the rest of your fine family. What a legacy of Christian beliefs that you instilled in all of your family, and will continue on even with little Sam. God bless all of you and may He give comfort and peace to you in such a sad hour. Love, David and Mary (Newlon)Johnson

Deanna Thursday October 5, 2006 at 5:31 PM
I was very saddend to hear of your daughter's passing. She was a delightful young woman who always greeted you with a smile. She will be missed but at least you know that she is with other loved ones who paved the way for her. What comfort you must have in KNOWING she is with her Saviour. God bless you and give you peace

Erica Morris Thornton gertie6480@yahoo.com Thursday October 5, 2006 at 4:13 PM
To Mr. and Mrs Turley, Daryl, Joel and Carrissa, and lil Sam.. I am so sorry for your loss. I went to school with Lara from elementary through High School, and my brother Joel was in Boy Scouts with Daryl and Joel. She was a wonderful person, friend, and always was there to listen when I had a problem, or to cheer me up. We lost touch after High School, but she has and will always be a dear friend to me. May God Bless you and comfort you at this time, and if you need anything, please don't hesitate to let me know!

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