Time For Memory

J. K. Butler

1929 - 2008

Our beloved husband, father and friend, J.K. Butler, took his last breath watching the evening news on June 2, 2008. That was his daily ritual and something he looked forward to.

J.K. is survived by his wife of 48 years, Frances Million Butler; daughters Sophie Dobbins and Ramona Johnson and son-in-law Doug Johnson and sister Wilma Ludwig, all of Silsbee. He is also survived by two grandchildren, Katie Johnson and Jake Dobbins, who meant the world to him. They were the light of his life and were the reason for his sustained, youthful outlook on life.

J.K. was born in San Augustine County on May 12, 1929 to William E. and Minnie S. Butler. He joined the Marines in 1952 and proudly served his country. He began his working career at Temple Inland's paper mill in Evadale, Texas in 1956 where he advanced in rank and effectiveness until his retirement in 1990 after 35 1/2 years of service. During his tenure, he served on the Board of the Eastex Credit Union.

It was early in his working career that a blue-eyed blond girl named Frances caught his attention. Little did he know that she was about to change his life by building a home for him which included two beautiful daughters who gave him two beautiful grandchildren. Not only did he excel as a father and grandfather, but also as a fisherman and hunter. He and his family grew up camping on the lakes, and he received joy in taking his daughters and their friends water skiing. But above all, they built a home for their family where the love and admonition of the Lord was ever-present.

J.K.'s absence will leave a void in our lives that we think only he can fill. But our Lord has promised to fill it with his peace and the knowledge that we will someday reunite in a more glorious reunion. Praise the Lord.

Visitation will be held Wednesday, June 4, 2008 from 5:00 pm until 8:00 pm at Farmer Funeral Home. Funeral services will be 10:00 am, Thursday, June 5, 2008 at Pinecrest Baptist Church with interment following in R S Farmer Memorial Cemetery in Silsbee.

There are currently 16 condolences.

Spate R Anthony anthonys@knology.net Sunday September 4, 2016 at 8:55 PM
I don't know why Uncle JK never liked me but I am forever grateful for his visit to my mother when she was dying. I'll never forget the loving smile she had for him, it was her last.

Sophie Butler Dobbins Thursday June 2, 2016 at 4:37 PM
Another year has come and gone... Jake and I miss you and always talk about something funny you said or did. He wishes you were her to take him hunting and fishing. I just miss you. I'm forever grateful for the life lessons you taught Jake. The saying "time heals all wounds" is so far from the truth. Every time we see an owl it reminds us of you! I love and miss you Pop.

Sophie Butler Dobbins Wednesday June 3, 2015 at 3:42 PM
It's been seven years since God called you to heaven. I miss you each and every day you've been gone. I have so much to tell you and miss our talks. Until I see you again...I love you Pop.

jana bailey butler familynurhome@yahoo.com Saturday July 12, 2014 at 12:27 AM
this was my father also my mom was his first wife and u was his first daughter i am now 57 yrs old my parents were together for a long time i miss him so much i dont know why ge never wanted to see his grandkids but that ok too i love u daddy

Sandra Messer Gernand Monday January 5, 2009 at 12:06 PM
Frances, Sophie, and Ramona, I was so sorry to hear of J.K.'s passing. He was a wonderful husband and father. I remember all of Sophie's slumber parties when he would come in from work and talk to us or play pranks on us! May your precious memories of your time with him sustain you until you meet again. Love, Sandra

Dwayne dmaricle@gt.rr.com Thursday June 12, 2008 at 12:29 PM
Everytime I think of JK, I can't help but think "WHAT A MAN". JK was quite a man. Many things he shared with me as a boy growing up, still stick with me today. THANK GOD for men like JK.

Jean Hill seljh@hotmail.com Friday June 6, 2008 at 5:10 PM
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. He filled many lives with love and laughter. May God be with you in the coming days.

Rodney Baldwin Thursday June 5, 2008 at 11:18 AM
Just to let you know the doctors and staff of Beaumont Pain Consultants were so, so sorry to hear about Mr. Butler's passing. Our prayers are for all of his family and friends. God Bless! Rodney Baldwin

Brenda Smithhart Wednesday June 4, 2008 at 6:22 PM
Frances, Sophie, Mona, Katie and Jake - Just want you to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I know your hearts are heavy, but hang on to all the wonderful memories J.K. made with you and it will help you through this difficult time. Without a doubt, he was well loved.

Lisa (Rucker) Thibodeaux Wednesday June 4, 2008 at 2:24 PM
Ramona & Sophie - You are in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time. May your memories help you smile. Lisa

Peggy Scarborough Wednesday June 4, 2008 at 12:42 PM
Katie and Jake, I am so sad to hear about your grand dad's passing.I remember losing my grandfather just as I was going into high school, also. Grab on to your wonderful memories to sustain you during the trying times ahead. Hugs to you and your families, Mrs. S.

Tablau Ferguson Wednesday June 4, 2008 at 10:35 AM
Frances, Ramona & Sophie - I am so sad about JK passing. He was a great guy and we always had a good laugh when I waited on him at the bank. He was the sweetest man and I know he loved his family. I'm sure all your great memories will be a comfort to all of you in the days to come. Tab

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Cindy Fussell Tuesday June 3, 2008 at 10:04 PM
Frances, Sophie, and Ramona: You know I love you and grieve with you. Poppa will missed, but the fun times on the lake and sitting in the living room sharing stories will always mean so much to me. May God be with you. Love ya'

Johnny & Cathy Johnson Tuesday June 3, 2008 at 5:30 PM
Frances, Sophie and Ramona we are so sorry to hear of the passing of JK. He was such a wonderful person and we are thankful that we got to know your family all those years ago when we lived in the apartment. We pray that all of the wonderful memories that you have of your time together will bring you peace.

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