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Jay Allinder Click for Condolences      Printable Version 1939 - 2012 Allinder, Jay Christian, 73, of Largo, Florida passed Dec. 23, 2012 at the Palm Gardens of Pinellas nursing home. Jay will be laid to rest with his parents Allen (A.F.) and Emily (Petersen) Allinder at East Montcalm Cemetery and the family will have a memorial service this spring. Memorial services will be published in the Greenville Daily News Funeral notice section and will be conducted by the Reverend Jerrold T. Jones. Born in Greenville, MI February 4, 1939 Jay attended Greenville High School and graduated Class of 1957. Hes a graduate of Arizona State University and has lived in Clearwater, FL for over 20 years. Jay battled mental illness most of his adult life. He strived to live independently and against the odds he did. Jay is also known for his kindness and graciousness. His friends and acquaintances always said, Hes the nicest man! Jay dear father and grandfather to David (Helen) Allinder and their two children Daniel and Eric; and Christina (Mark) Horvath and their three children Michael, Catrina and Megan. Jay is also survived by two siblings, Reverend William (Joan) Allinder of Cadillac, MI and their two children Nancy and John; and his sister Bonnie Reid of Alma, MI and her three children Wendy, Amy and James. Dear cousin Ron Allinder, who always kept in touch lives Aurora, IL and long time personal friends Renee Pleva and Kurt Fleck. Grandson of the late Jay C. and Christina Petersen and Mrs. Grace S.C. Allinder. Our Family wishes to express appreciation to Palm Gardens of Pinellas and Sun Coast Hospice for their loving and sustaining care of Jay. Those planning an expression of sympathy may wish to consider Suncoast Hospice Foundation at www.thehospice.org/Special-Pages/Donate, First Congregational Church or Greenville High School Alumni

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There are currently 4 condolences.

Jane [Schallert] Campbell Sunday January 20, 2013 at 3:51 PM

Dear Family and Friends of Jay, I remember Jay very well. Jay ran in High School with a great bunch of guys. [I am in Fl for 3 mo.and don't have my year book ir I would name them] I was friends with 12 gals and sometimes we would have a get together with the boys. We were all good friends. Not sure what those guys did when they had a pary but the girls were pretty tame. I knew he lived a difficult life with many problems. I understand the loss of a son or brother. My son Dan died at age 36 in 1998 after many years of drug addiction. As a mother I had grieved for him many years so my grief was different from others. I knew that now he was at peace and that I will see him in heaven someday. Many years of studying God's word helped me through the difficult days and night. I found a scripture in I Peter 5:10 that gave me hope and comfort. "And the God of all grace who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore yoou and make you strong, firm and steadfast." I know this to be true. God taught me many things so "I can comfort others as God comforted me" I hope the above words will give you peace. We can trust that "He will never leave you or forsake you." Bonnie, Rita wrote to me about Jay and shared that your brother Bill was recovering from a stroke. I will be praying for both of you and all who loved Jay. In Christian love with blessings, Jane Schallert Campbell

Jane [Schallert] Campbell Sunday January 20, 2013 at 3:28 PM

Jim Vanderpool Friday January 18, 2013 at 12:17 PM

May God rest his soul

Marcia Crawford [Castle] Thursday January 17, 2013 at 9:57 PM

I was sorry to read of the passing of Jay. Years ago in high school,most of the girls thought Jay was the best looking guy in high school, and a very nice guy too. Bless the family.

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