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Dustin James Bates Click for Condolences      Printable Version
1990 - 2006

Dustin James BatesFuneral services for Dustin James Bates, 15, of Lumberton are 10:00 am Saturday at Fletcher Emanuel Baptist Church in Lumberton under the direction of Farmer Funeral Home in Silsbee. Interment will follow in Daniel Cemetery in Kountze. Visitation will begin at 5:00 pm Friday at the funeral home.

Dustin passed away January 23, 2006 at Shriners Burn Hospital in Galveston.

A lifelong resident of Lumberton, Dustin was a 9th grade student at Lumberton High School and played on the freshman football team.

Survivors include his father Shane Bates of Sour Lake; mother Cindy Langham Bates of Lumberton; stepmother Kathleen Peters of Sour Lake; brother Robert Lee Land IV of Lumberton; sisters Shawn Bates of Lumberton, Amanda Jo Peters and Maddison Peters, both of Sour Lake; grandparents Floyd and Francene Bass of Lumberton and Jim and Carol Bates of Crystal Beach; brother in law Chris Schexnider and niece Kaytlynn Schexnider, both of Lumberton.


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There are currently 33 condolences.


JESSICA
Tuesday October 16, 2012 at 1:52 PM

WAS JUST SITTING HERE THINKING ABOUT YOU AND WANTED TO SAY WE MISS YOU RIP DJ YOULL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN
 
Cindy Bates Smith
puddin5552@yahoo.com
Friday January 22, 2010 at 2:41 PM

It has been four long years since you left me and went to be with the Good Lord in Heaven. I miss you so much. I miss you beautiful smile, the way you teased me and loved me. You always had you momas back. I really wished you where here so we could work out again.... that was always our time Missing you and loving you Mommy
 
Yancey Lane
Latron15@msn.com
Thursday January 8, 2009 at 11:47 AM

Miss you cousin.
 
Kristy
Friday August 22, 2008 at 10:54 AM

Happy B-day
 
Kristy
KristyTex@cmaaccess.com
Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 11:19 AM

R.I.P
 

Wednesday January 23, 2008 at 11:18 AM

 
mommy
Wednesday August 22, 2007 at 11:32 PM

Hi baby!!!! This would be your 17th birthday. I miss you so much I want to hold you and tell you how proud I am of you. Someday we will be together again I know that ... I love you ... Happy Birthday
 
Kristy
Wednesday August 22, 2007 at 1:41 PM

Happy Birthday D.J.
 
Kristy
Tuesday August 22, 2006 at 5:51 PM

Happy Birthday
 
CINDY BATES
PUDDIN5552@YAHOO.COM
Tuesday July 11, 2006 at 9:36 AM

JUST WANTED TO LET ALL OF D.J.'S FRIENDS AND FAMILY KNOW THAT HIS HEADSTONE HAS BEEN PLACED AT THE CEMETERY. IT IS VERY BEAUTIFUL AND THANKS TO EVERYONE FOR THEIR HELP IT GETTING IT
 
Kristy
KristyTex@cmaaccess.com
Friday March 31, 2006 at 1:18 AM

Dustin, Just wanted to say we are thinking about you. And you will never be forgotten. Until we see you again
 
Benefit for Family
KristyTex@cmaaccess.com
Tuesday February 14, 2006 at 11:34 PM

Benefit for the family of Dustin "DJ" Bates. Sunday Feb.19, 1 to 4 pm at COWBOY RED'S BAR-B-Q in Lumberton. There will also be a Cake Walk. Cowboy Red's will be donating 100% of the proceeds to the family. Account has been set up at Texas State Bank or can be dropped off Sunday at Cowboy Red's.
 
CINDY BATES
PUDDIN5552@YAHOO.COM
Monday February 6, 2006 at 12:30 PM

I WANT TO THANK EVERYONE FOR BEING SO GREAT AND THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR PRAYERS CINDY BATES
 
Lani
Thursday February 2, 2006 at 4:01 PM

hey family its me again i was just cheaking on yall hope yall are doing better i know its hard cause it is for me so i cant imagen how hard it is for yall. i love to come to his page and read what everyone wrote about him . he was a awsome guy with much to offer i will always remember his beautiful eyes the way the glicened . im truly sorry this happened to him i miss him but will never forget him and once again im sorry and you raised a a awsome son i have to say he made me feel like i was special by the way he treated are talked to me i wish yall the best
 
lani Appleman
suntanbabe89@yahoo.com
Monday January 30, 2006 at 10:30 PM

im sorry to hear what happened . Dj was a dear friend to me and inpacted my life he mad me laugh , when i wanted to cry i dated dj for a while this year and i never got the chance to meet the parents to this awsome guy im sorry we had to meet this way i will never forget your son DJ i loved him so he was a great friend i still cry till this day he means alot to me and may he rest in peace and may we never forget him are what he brought to the table . And once again im sorry and im praying for you the family its hard to loose someone close . i will never forget my friend DJ. Ill see him on the otherside and we will smile and laught together . i love you dj . AND TO THE FAMILY MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALL !!! LOVE LANI
 
Hazel Burge
Monday January 30, 2006 at 7:05 PM

Dear Family, We extend our sincere and heartfelt sympathy to each of you. We didn't know DJ personally, but my grandchildren went to school with him and speak very highly of him. May God Bless Each of You.
 
Ken and Pamela (Bates) Clarke
Sunday January 29, 2006 at 11:23 PM

Dear Shane and Family, We are so very sorry to hear of the tragic loss of of your precious son. We cannot describe in words how very sorry we are, and our hearts and prayers go out to you. May God grant you strength and comfort during this difficult time. We pray that your happy memories of Dustin will bring you peace and comfort. With much love, Ken and Pamela
 
Micki (Bates) Cline
Saturday January 28, 2006 at 7:20 PM

Jim and Carol, Shane, and Robbin I am so sorry to hear of the tragedy that suddenly took Dustin's life. You are all in my prayers that you will find comfort in our Lord Jesus Christ. I will continue to pray for all of you in the coming days and weeks Love in Christ, Micki
 
Rickey & Tina Denton
rtd440@gt.rr.com
Saturday January 28, 2006 at 6:13 PM

Cindy - We are so sorry for your loss. Rickey called me from work (Classic Acura) and asked me if I had a customer named Cindy Bates - then proceeded to tell me that it was your son in the house fire that we had seen on the news. Nothing I can say will really ease your pain at this moment, but this might help. "Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where - our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy." I ran across this saying recently and keep going back to it......to see if it will ever help me deal with the loss of my Mother 14 mos. ago. Remember, I'm here if you need anything or if I can help in any way. Tina Denton (Avon)
 
Rickey & Tina Denton
Saturday January 28, 2006 at 5:55 PM

 
Gina Gray
Sweeternhoney11@aol.com
Friday January 27, 2006 at 11:44 PM

Cindy and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Don has been missing his Lumberton friends since we moved to Nederland, and DJ was one of them he missed the most. DJ was always such a polite kid. He will always be in our hearts, and you and your family will be in our prayers...Gina Gray, Don McCray, & Didi Simmons
 
Dana and Lainey Griffin
Friday January 27, 2006 at 6:27 PM

My daughter was one of DJ’s friends and she has been truly touched by his death. She is trying to understand why something like this happens to such a young person. She told me of his beautiful eyes, and a time when they were talking and how he complimented her on her brown eyes. This truly had deep meaning to her. DJ will be missed. Our prayers are with you.
 
Deborah Monger Achord
dmongerhouston.rr.com
Friday January 27, 2006 at 1:39 PM

Hugs From Heaven by Charlotte Anselmo When you feel a gentle breeze Caress you when you sigh It's a hug sent from Heaven From a loved one way up high. If a soft and tender raindrop Lands upon your nose They've added a small kiss As fragile as a rose. If a song you hear fills you With a feeling of sweet love It's a hug sent from Heaven From someone special up above. If you awaken in the morning To a bluebird's chirping song It's music sent from Heaven To cheer you all day long. If tiny little snowflakes Land upon your face It's a hug sent from Heaven Trimmed with Angel lace. So keep the joy in your heart If you're lonely my dear friend Hugs that are sent from Heaven A broken heart will mend.
 
Juliana Reese-Colson & Family
akajae8@hotmail.com
Friday January 27, 2006 at 10:16 AM

My deepest condolences for your family. While I never personally met Dustin, I understand from my nephew, Josh, that he was a wonderful person. May God Grace and Bless you during this time. Sincerely, Juliana Reese-Colson
 
Lloyd and Lee Stimson
llstimson@adelphia.net
Friday January 27, 2006 at 9:05 AM

Dear Jim, Carol, Shane, Kathleen, Cindy and All the Family, Words cannot convey our sorrow in your loss of Dustin. We have read his obituary and the accounts of his death. Our prayers are with you and you are all on our prayer list at our Bible Study and we will put you on our prayer chain at church on Sunday. May God comfort you and hold you close at this time. In love and sorrow, Lloyd & Lee
 
Lynda Burge Jordan & Dillon Jordan
Friday January 27, 2006 at 1:00 AM

Cindy, We wanted you and your family to know how very sorry we are to hear of your loss. We know there are no words that could possibly ease your pain, Just know that we are thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.
 
Janie,Jerry,and Family
bassjc@hotmail.com
Thursday January 26, 2006 at 10:39 PM

In a time like this, there just are no words.We are so very sorry for this tragis time. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and that the Lord never puts more on us than he knows we can bear. you will stay in our prayers for as long as you need them. If there is anything we can do, please call, you know where we are. All of our love, Aunt Janie
 
Linda (Bates) Williams
batesgirl3@cox.net
Thursday January 26, 2006 at 7:29 PM

Jim, Carol, Robbin and Shane: We were so sorry to hear of your loss. You must be devasted. We understand that he was a fine young man. Please accept our sympathy.
 
Sam, Lori and Garrett Davee
LDAVEE@gt.rr.com
Thursday January 26, 2006 at 6:36 PM

We have not lived in Lumberton but just a little over a year. Garrett started 8th grade last year in the middle of the year and DJ was the first to greet and welcome him. DJ will always be remembered. May God wrap his wonderful loving arms around all of you. Sam, Lori, and Garrett Davee
 
Linda, Karl and Eric
khunter@gt.rr.com
Thursday January 26, 2006 at 11:21 AM

Cindy, Shane, Lee & Shawn, We are so very sorry for your loss. Eric said Dustin was a great kid, always smiling and helping others in school. He will be greatly missed. I love you, Cindy, and hope you know I am always here if you need anything. I pray the Lord will comfort you and that you will draw closer to Him. Linda
 
JIM HANSARD
jhansard@gt.rr.com
Thursday January 26, 2006 at 8:57 AM

CINDY(WILD WOMAN) I CAN TRULY FEEL YOUR LOSS, SINCE I RECENTLY LOST MY WIFE OF 34 YEARS. ONLY TIME, YOUR FAMILY,FRIENDS AND THE GOOD LORD CAN HELP YOU COPE WITH YOUR LOSS. IF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK WITH SOMEONE THAT HAS SUFFERD A SIMILAR LOSS, ALWAYS COME TALK TO ME. JIM HANSARD
 
Kristi Bourque
kabourque@lumberton.k12.tx.us
Wednesday January 25, 2006 at 5:09 PM

I was one of DJ's teachers in 8th grade, and my daughter has been friends with him for years. I am truly sorry for your loss. I know that his family and his classmates will miss him, but no one will ever forget those beautiful eyes and that bright smile.
 
Carol Wilson
cahwil42@yahoo.com
Wednesday January 25, 2006 at 4:24 PM

Our prayers are with you and your family. DJ will always be remembered in our hearts. We pray that God will give you the peace and understanding that you need. Carol, Steve, Chris & Tyler Wilson
 







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